NaturalBornThriller-needs-your-advice.

[Guest NaturalBornThriller4:20]

Forget-the-Keyboard-for-a-second.

I-need-help-and-advice.

 

Okay,There's-this-Girl-whom-i've-known-pretty-much

my-whole-dammed-life.We've-always-been-friends.It

wasn't-up-until-about-2-years-ago-that-I-truly-started

to-like-her.This-usually-happens-at-Camp.She-found

out-and-came-to-talk-to-me-about-it.I-pretty-much

choked.I-couldn't-say-anything.So-we-didn't-speak

for-about-a-Year-up-until-last-Year-during-Camp.We

chilled-together-the-whole-time-and-I-was-finally

ready-to-make-my-move.TOO-LATE!She-liked-another

Guy.They-are-now-broken-up.Fast-Foward-to-now.Yes,

I-still-like-her.Now-I-hear-there-are-2-Guys-that-she

might-like,which-one?I-don't-know.

I-can't-get-over-her-and-I-have-to-find-some-kind

of-way-to-win-her-over.

What-can-I-do?

[Guest EQ]

If it's the last thing you do... talk to her about what you feel before she starts hanging out with any other guys!

 

She'll probably think it's sweet that you have this big crush on her. Since you've been friends for so long, I would assume that it'd be easier to talk to her about this

[Guest DrTom]

Hit her over the head with your defective keyboard. Then you'll have a good excuse to get a new one.

 

Kidding. Seriously, you have to tell her how you feel, and just she feels the same.

[Guest NaturalBornThriller4:20]

She-already-knows.

[Guest crandamaniac]

Seriously dude, you have to make you're move. Just be confident, ask her out, and get her to warm up to the idea of you two as a couple

[Guest Some Guy]

How old are you? It'll help to know, I'm assuming that you are about 14-17 because of the wording of your post. If I'm wrong tell me and I might change my advice.

 

I gave you my advice in the relationship thread but I'll go a little further.

 

If you really like this girl, telling her out right isn't always necessary, it's very hard to do as well at any age possible rejection sucks.

 

When you are talking does she ever give you a look that would make you think she's interested in more than friendship? What I mean is, when you're talking is there ever a time when both of you stop at the same time and just make perfect eye contact and you both look away quickly, because you're nervous. If so, then you have a chance.

 

The trick with being friends first is to not become to close of friends. Don't become like her brother. Try not to talk too much about her relationships and when you do don't put her boyfriend down for no reason. It'll turn her off, she'll think you're an asshole. Just give the best advise possible with the implication that you would be better for her.

 

Try to take your coversations with her beyond small talk, find out what she likes and what she hates. It'll come in handy if you get her. Find out her pet peves that guys do, like sticking their tounges all the way down her throat or whatever. That will also come in handy. But for the love of God be descreet about it. Don't say, "Hey what do you hate?" That would be quite ackward.

 

Just try to get to know her on a personal level.

 

You said she knows how you feel, ask one of her friends (who you trust) how she feels. If she just wants to be friends then let it slide for a while, she might change her mind after she has a few bad experiences with other guys. If she doesn't then another girl will come along and you'll get over her. It's tough to get over a crush, but you will.

 

If this is slightly incoherant, it's because I'm slightly drunk right now.

 

EDIT: Don't tell her that you post on a wrestling message board, she'll think you're a looser.

[Guest M Nyland]

dude.....if she knows how you feel and LIKES it...then go farther with it...

 

do whatever you can to get closer to her than the other guys. Talk about things she likes (as long as they aren't too fruity or she will know you are just trying to win her over)

 

There was a girl I liked and I found out she had a love for nu-metal music...and being the music bastard that I am I had long winded conversations about bands, songs, and the like until finally I just said "wanna go out" and she said "sure" like it was NO BIG THING...

 

 

...sadly...I almost marked out...and that could have cost me the date...

[Guest Ripper]

I'm sorry to say this, but she knows it right...she is single right...if she hasn't done anything to encourage you, she might not be feeling you like that. You might have to move on.

 

I say give it one big valient try. If it is a no go, then it is time to move on.

[Guest Nezbyte]

Advice; Get a new fucking keyboard.

[Guest GenerationNever]

Hit her over the head with your keyboard and drag her back to your cave by her hair.

[Guest evenflowDDT]

I'm sorry to say this, but she knows it right...she is single right...if she hasn't done anything to encourage you, she might not be feeling you like that. You might have to move on.

 

I say give it one big valient try. If it is a no go, then it is time to move on.

It might sound a bit cruel, but this is dead-on, since you already said she knows how you feel about her. If she's a really good friend though, she won't totally reject you and will still hang out with you afterward, and it won't be the same, especially when she starts talking about other guys, but in the end you'll realize it's much better than not being around her at all.

 

I have a bad habit of liking my friends, so this happens to me a lot more than you'd expect. Thankfully most of 'em are pretty cool about it, and it sounds like your friend will be since you've known her so long. She knows, make a move, if not, you're still friends hopefully...

[Guest dreamer420]

I'd tell her straight out. I know you don't want to ruin your friendship with this girl if it doesn't work out but sometimes it is worth the risk.