Guest Zack Malibu Report post Posted July 17, 2002 In part 1 of the "people who are pissing Zack off" story, I told you guys about a rather dense guy who used to go out with my girlfriend who somehow thinks she'll magically stop loving me and run back to him. While that situation has been quelled (she firmly told him off for hopefully the final time, seeing as this time he just hung up when she told him to fuck off), I'm now having to deal with another situation. I swear some people are just so jealous of others happiness. So, without further ado, here's the story... I met my girlfriend through a crop of people who frequent a coffee shop in my town. I had known several of the people in that group, so I hung out with them, got to know the others...you guys know how the story goes. So for the 5 months or so (between last June and November), this one girl, who was my girlfriends best friend, was a decent friend to me as well. I didn't buddy up to her because I liked her friend or anything, she was genuinely a nice person, and I had graduated with her brother, so I figured she was cool. Damn, was I wrong. In November, when things between my girlfriend and I stopped being "on again, off again" dating and heading towards more serious ground, this girl did a total 180, suddenly hating me, and bitching me out at any opportunity, telling me that her friend (my girlfriend) wanted nothing to do with me, to back away, that I was obsessed...anything to make me look like an ass. When my girlfriend asked ME out, on my birthday, this girl a)failed to show up at my party, and b)told my girlfriend she'd never talk to her again Naturally, being such good friends, they did talk. But this time it was different. For the last seven months, this girl has had tantrums so many times because I supposedly "took away her friend". She has said things that are downright mean and crude, and God forbid the wrong person heard it in passing, it might be believed. I've stayed quiet for seven months, not wanting to bring any stress onto my girlfriend, but it's getting to be too much to handle. As recently as a few nights ago, this girl stormed out of my girlfriends in a huff because I came over, called my girlfriend up screaming "I can't take this...I hate what you do to me", all the while leaving my girlfriend realizing that this girl needs help, but fails to get it. I think it's now beyond the point where she's jealous of us, and that she needs help, and so does my girlfriend. My girlfriend grew up with this girl, and tries to remain calm and nice about things, but it's even getting to be a lot for her (she has flipped out in my defense several times already). So...anyone know how to deal with some psycho who's jealousy has seemingly overcome their life? Because with my girlfriend preparing to leave for college in just under 2 months, I know she doesn't want to head off on a bad note, but I'm afraid by then I'm going to tell this "friend" (and the term is used loosely) where to stick it. Any thoughts or comments? One more thing:This girl has grown up around my girlfriend and her family, and was friends with my girlfriends older sister. The sister, as well as my g/f's parents, who have known her forever, feel that she's a totally different person these days, so I know it's not just me being biased because of things that are said/done to me. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Ironman Report post Posted July 17, 2002 If they like me, I usually have nothing against them. If they don't then they can't come to the wedding (Parties. I aint gettin merried, son). Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest EQ Report post Posted July 17, 2002 When I was going out with my girl, I couldn't stand her friends. I almost never hung out with them... they just pissed me off too much. Now that we're broken up, it's pretty obvious that they hate me too. It was funny, me and some friends went out somewhere, and a bunch of her stupid friends were there too. My friend, who I guess is pretty attractive for a guy, noticed that they were checking him out and crap. Then I walk over and started talking to him... they gave HIM dirty looks after that. Damn. I didn't know I was so over as a heel with these crazy bitches. My friend wasn't pissed b/c he didn't wanna get on any of them anyway, so it's not like I dicked him over. Besides, like the old saying goes: "Bros before Hoes." Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Nezbyte Report post Posted July 17, 2002 Just as Some Guy (the poster) said: Bitches Be Trippin' Yeah, crazy crazy chicks. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest MrRant Report post Posted July 17, 2002 Never evil friends.... evil cousin though. Something about that bitch I just don't trust. The kind that would probably try and influence someone to do certain things. That is why I told my fiancee that she IS NOT to hang around her alone and when our baby is born (Aug 24th) SHE will not be around it. I'm not a control freak in anyway because she can do anything with anyone else ... EXCEPT her. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Doomsault Report post Posted July 17, 2002 Well, it was the opposite for me. My girlfriend was the evil one. Viva La Poop, your sig is genius. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest J*ingus Report post Posted July 17, 2002 Friend of the older sister, huh? She doesn't like her now either, you say? Use that. Have both the girlfriend and her sister sit the psycho down and explain things to her. She can't say that you stole the sister away too. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Zack Malibu Report post Posted July 17, 2002 Friend of the older sister, huh? She doesn't like her now either, you say? Use that. Have both the girlfriend and her sister sit the psycho down and explain things to her. She can't say that you stole the sister away too. I honestly can't tell you how many times that's been tried, Jingus. Even people who have no ties to me or my g/f, and are more apt to side with the psycho girl are telling her that she's in the wrong, and that she may need to talk to a professional about her feelings (low self esteem, panic for no reason). The girl always puts up a front, acting fine, etc. then puts the blame on "situations that my g/f puts her in", which is just a bunch of bull. My g/f has put up with more than enough, including rude comments that even her mom heard, but she wants to help her because she knows it's not normal. But like the saying goes...you can't help someone who doesn't want to be helped. That's why we feel stuck in this rut. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Intimacy Goblin Report post Posted July 17, 2002 Most of my ex-girlfriend's friends treat me with indifference or make some small effort to be cordial, so no, I haven't had to deal with any of my (psycho) ex-girlfriend's pyscho friends, nor have I met any of my current girlfriend's friends, psycho or otherwise. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest EQ Report post Posted July 18, 2002 Viva La Poop, your sig is genius. *Bows* Thanks. Glad you like it. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest LesnarLunatic Report post Posted July 18, 2002 I've had problems with friends of the girls I've tried to get. Bleh to them! or, as they say in Iran, DEATH TO THEM ALL. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest dreamer420 Report post Posted July 18, 2002 not so much evil as they are fucking annoying. the worst is when you are fighting with your girlfriend and her damn know-it-all friends try to get right in the middle. situations like that usually end up with my bitching at her friends and she having her side with her friends. ohh well, shit like that isn't worth the pain it causes in my head. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
