Guest BifEverchad Report post Posted August 27, 2002 Ok, this is something that's been on my mind all week, so I've decided to share it with my fellow smarks and see what you all think of my situation. So there's this chick at my work, we'll call her "Lisa", who was interested in me a while ago, but at the time I had a girlfriend so obviously I didn't do anything about it. Since then, my girlfriend and I have broke up. So now I'm curious about that chick that liked me when I had a gf. Anyways, I recently learned that she is now interested in this other guy at work, but HE has a gf now himself. Following me? Ok, so anyways, maybe "interested" isnt strong enough a word to describe her feelings for this guy. She's pretty much obsessed. But like I said, he has a gf and apparently isn't going to break up with her anytime soon. So on the story goes, and I tell a friend of hers that I am now interested in "Lisa", so she decides to work something out and see how "Lisa" still feels about me. Anyways long story short, this friend of "Lisa", apparently likes me herself and never really made any effort to see if there was something that could get me and "Lisa" together anyways. But the thing is, I really like that "Lisa" chick and don't really have any interest in her friend that *does* like me. Is this as confusing as it seems? Anyways, what shall I do now? It seems to be a tangled web, with nobody really knowing how anyone else feels...well some of us do. Blah... suggestions? feedback? kick in the pants? Bif Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest oldschoolwrestling Report post Posted August 27, 2002 It all depends on which one is hotter. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest CanadianChick Report post Posted August 27, 2002 Why don't you ask 'Lisa' yourself? Talk to her and maybe she will be intrested to go out some time. Then after, ask her if she still has feelings for you after going out Thats the best I can come up with. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest BifEverchad Report post Posted August 27, 2002 Why don't you ask 'Lisa' yourself? Talk to her and maybe she will be intrested to go out some time. Then after, ask her if she still has feelings for you after going out Thats the best I can come up with. thanks Chickie, now all I hafta do is get the guts to actually ask "Lisa" out or whatever. See the thing is, I know she is really caught up with this other guy, so that might affect the outcome of me asking her out. So hopefully I will get the grapefruits to do so, and it'll all work out. It all depends on which one is hotter. lol well to be brutally honest, "Lisa" is. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest CanadianChick Report post Posted August 27, 2002 You can do it Bif! I know you have the guts to do so! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest BifEverchad Report post Posted August 27, 2002 thanks Chickie.. and since when were did you get over the 1000 mark? you were like 7 something the other day lol Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest CanadianChick Report post Posted August 27, 2002 Last night I posted a LOT. I didn't want to go to bed, so yeah. I posted like 120 last night, I think. Sad, eh? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest DrTom Report post Posted August 27, 2002 You should definitely talk to "Lisa" and try to get something going there. But only after you let her friend blow you a few times. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest dreamer420 Report post Posted August 27, 2002 I would start talking with Lisa and see if there is anything between you two before making any big decisions. The chemistry with Lisa might be off the page but it might not be either. A little harmless flirting can't kill you. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Some Guy Report post Posted August 27, 2002 How long ago did this chick like you and how old are you and she? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest BifEverchad Report post Posted August 27, 2002 I would start talking with Lisa and see if there is anything between you two before making any big decisions. The chemistry with Lisa might be off the page but it might not be either. A little harmless flirting can't kill you. There is definate chemistry there between the two of us. We talk all teh time at work and are very comfortable with each other. My only worry there is that we are too comfortable and may be falling into the friendship division. By the way, there is always flirting going on too. Hmm? How long ago did this chick like you and how old are you and she? Well Some Guy, apparently she 'liked me' this time last year and she is almost 20 and I'm almost 22... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Some Guy Report post Posted August 27, 2002 Sorry I assumed you were younger, most of the people with girl troubles here are. Just go talk to her and see what the deal is, if she's not interested move on. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Texas Small Arms 09 Report post Posted August 27, 2002 I agree with Some Guy. Talk to her and if she isn't interested move on. Not worth wasting your time on a nut case that is obsessed with someone else. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Spaceman Spiff Report post Posted August 27, 2002 You should definitely talk to "Lisa" and try to get something going there. But only after you let her friend blow you a few times. Dr. Tom: always the practical one Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest BifEverchad Report post Posted August 28, 2002 cool... thanks for the input fellas Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
