Is it possible to have a best friend...

[Guest ShooterJay]

So, I've been in school for about a month and a half, and my best friend so far is a girl named Stacy in my Communications 101 class. We get along incredibly well, she laughs at most of my jokes we've been out to eat a few times, we study together, and we're pretty good friends. A girl from who live next door to her just came up to me a minute ago and says Stacy considers us to be really good friends.

 

I've seen some signs of attraction from her, but she currently has a boyfriend (at Harvard no less) and it wouldn't be cool for me to make a move on her until that ends. It'll be hard though, because she has pretty face and a KILLER body- long legs, an amazing luscious ass, full breasts, overall a very tight, athletic- looking little package (she was a distance runner in high school).

 

So basically, as the topic says, is it possible to have a best friend that you want to nail really really badly? Does the little head always win out in this case and cost you a friendship?

 

This is different from LoTC's problem because I'd really like to stay friends with her, at least until she breaks up with high-school sweetheart Harvard boy. I don't know that many people, and she's been the one constant since I've been at school.

 

Also, in a related collegiate relationship question, is it better to look for a no-strings-attached, cheap bang at this point, (odds are in my favor because of a 3/1 female-male ratio among frosh this year, and several other girls have shown obvious interest) or a semi-steady, boyfriend-girlfriend-type relationship?

[Guest Youth N Asia]

So basically, as the topic says, is it possible to have a best friend that you want to nail really really badly? Does the little head always win out in this case and cost you a friendship?

I had this deal a couple years ago...it drove me and my penis insane...nothing happened though, the friendship died over a year ago, haven't spoken since June of 2001.

 

Shame, she probably was my best friend from 98-01.

 

I keep thinking about looking her up and seeing how she's doing...can't seem to do it though. Ah well

[Guest Bosstones Fan]

Dude, if she's the best friend you've got at school, don't touch her (whether she has a boyfriend or not is irrelevant). I promise you that things WILL change between you two if you were to sleep together, and you will never be great friends with her again. Trust me, I speak from experience.

 

As for your second question: it all depends on what YOU want. If you're just looking for a cheap lay, then go for it. Just make sure it's someone that you don't really care to be friends with because after your fling is over, there will be an awkwardness between you two that will likely kill any friendship you might have formed.

 

And make sure she's hot too. Why waste a good fling on an ugly chick?

[Guest kkktookmybabyaway]

Just jerk off when you get home and you'll be OK...

[Guest HartFan86]

Having relationships seem to have a track record of ending relationships than making them better. Just ask to be on a friendship where you have sex like every month or whatever...but you aren't going out.

[Guest Ravenbomb]

sex can wait, masterbate!

[Guest Texas Small Arms 09]

To answer your question, yes it is very possible to have a best friend that you want to nail. But in this case sleeping with her would ruin a friendship, simply because she does have a high school sweetheart and until something happens she will be devoted to him. Sleeping with her would only make things very akward and could ruin whatever friendship you have. I will go with the other guys on this one and say don't do it and just get off when you get home. And thats not an answer I'd give out all the time, but this warrents it

[Guest J*ingus]

odds are in my favor because of a 3/1 female-male ratio among frosh this year,

::spit take::

 

Which college is this?!?

[Guest Prince Paul]

You want to aim to be FTF. Friends that fuck. No strings. When the two of you are horny, just hook up, fulfill each others needs and go grab some lunch together the next day and hang out like normal.

[Guest Texas Small Arms 09]

And again that was spoken like a horny teenage male that ONLY thinks with their penis......I believe he was trying to have alittle more of an adult conversation

[Guest Prince Paul]

And again that was spoken like a horny teenage male that ONLY thinks with their penis......I believe he was trying to have alittle more of an adult conversation

I'm actually not a teen. I'm an adult. When you turn into an adult and have an active life, you will see that these are things that occur.

[Guest Youth N Asia]

Ah dammit...this thread has triggered old memories. Depression...setting in...

 

[sarcasm] Thanks guys, thanks a lot! [/sarcasm]

[Guest Prince Paul]

Ah dammit...this thread has triggered old memories. Depression...setting in...

 

[sarcasm] Thanks guys, thanks a lot! [/sarcasm]

I agree. Back in my careless youth before marriage.

[Guest Texas Small Arms 09]

Okay so just so I am perfectly clear on this, being a 20 year old that makes 30K a year, lives on my own in a nice apartment and has a steady boyfriend of almost 2 years isn't an adult? At what point would you, oh wise Prince Paul, consider me an adult? Because the way I see it, I have more going for me than most right now, so please enlighten me.

[Guest Cancer Marney]

Ah dammit...this thread has triggered old memories. Depression...setting in...

Yeah, of a thousand other threads exactly like this. I'd make fun of it, but I just don't care anymore.

[Guest Incandenza]

Let me recap those thousands of other threads:

 

I HAVE NO SACK.

 

The end.

[Guest cobainwasmurdered]

Ah dammit...this thread has triggered old memories. Depression...setting in...

 

[sarcasm] Thanks guys, thanks a lot! [/sarcasm]

I agree. Back in my careless youth before marriage.

*has joke, but should save it for NHB*

 

on Topic: Don't try and fuck her. Girls come and go but friendships can last forever.

[Guest Texas Small Arms 09]

CWM is 100% RIGHT

 

 

And I have yet to hear a response from Prince Paul on what he considers being an adult.

[Guest cobainwasmurdered]

I think the odds of Paul actually being an adult are very slim...very very slim.

[Guest Texas Small Arms 09]

I never said I thought he was an adult he just told me I wasn't one so when I pointed out to him exactly what I was and what I have I wanted him to tell me at what point I become an adult in his mind. Its really just so I can have a good laugh

[Guest J*ingus]

I'm still waiting for an answer to my question, dammit. And will continue waiting until I receive it.

 

::Pulls up a chair, whips out a copy of the Kama Sutra to study for his future academic career.::

[Guest cobainwasmurdered]

Okay. I just wanted to add that I doubt he's an adult.

 

When I read his post about being married I burst out in laughter...thought that might have something to do with all the Vodka and Beer (Canadian of course) I've consumed tonight.

 

CWM-the sarcastic,bitter drunk of TSM.

[Guest Texas Small Arms 09]

Well if he is married it's probably one of those trailer trash marriages or a marriage like Jerry Lawler and Stacey had. You know an older guy and a much much much younger teenager wife who has to be in bed before 9pm.

[Guest cobainwasmurdered]

or he's one of those guys with a wife that controls his every moment so he takes it out on us.

[Guest Incandenza]

CWM, you are not the only drunk on this board.

 

::goes to make self another screwdriver::

[Guest cobainwasmurdered]

But I'm the drunk with almost 8,000 posts.

 

*goes to pour himself a little more of everything*

[Guest Incandenza]

Hey, pal, I'm one of the ORIGINAL SIX, too.

 

I really like vodka, though that whole "my goddamn throat is on fire" thing gets old after awhile. Were I not an athiest, I would thank God for orange juice.

 

EDIT: Oh yeah. What was the point of this thread?

[Guest Texas Small Arms 09]

Personally its sex on the beach and then a screaming orgasm for me

[Guest cobainwasmurdered]

Sure the "throat on fire" gets old but I can never get tired of a good Vodka.

 

I feel like some Scotch though, god bless Canada's low drinking age, and the ready supply of alcohol.

 

*goes to liquer cabinet*

[Guest cobainwasmurdered]

Personally its sex on the beach and then a screaming orgasm for me

texas Small Arms owns.