Is it possible to have a best friend...

[Guest Texas Small Arms 09]

just so you know i didn't mean just liquor either But what can I say, I can hold my liquor really well

[Guest Prince Paul]

I wasn't saying you weren't an adult. I was simply stating that these are things that occur in many adult circles. Friends who have sex. It's not new or anything.

 

 

CWM, yes, I am an adult. Father of 1, stepfather to another. Make all the trailer trash jokes you want. I own a nice new townhouse, drive a nice new SUV, have a house with all of the things I ever wanted (besides my kegmeister and dog), have a loving wife, a beautiful baby daughter and very gifted step daughter.

[Guest Banky]

You have more sex when you get older. Once one has had sex, it is no big deal if they get a little pinch and squeel.

[Guest ShooterJay]

Jingus, it's Boston University by the way.

 

To clarify, among college of communications frosh, it's 80/20 female to male, among all frosh, it's 75/25 female/male, and in the school at large, it's about 65/35.

 

Social life's pretty good here, seeing as how I'm above-average looking (basically a shorter, skinnier version of CZW's Messiah) and because of the ratio, very pretty girls jump all over anyone with half-decent looks and a good personality. I've dated three different girls since I've been here (I didn't tell Stacy in case our relationship radically changed overnight,) but I haven't gotten laid yet, not that I particularly care, it's still early.

 

Anyway, thanks a lot for all the opinions everybody, feel free to keep posting them. I'm just unsure how to go about pursuing relationships here, all the advice helps.

[Guest J*ingus]

::taking notes:: Boston, gotcha. Hope to see you there by this time next year.

[Guest EricMM]

Girls come and go but friendships can last forever.

 

Actually generally Guys come and go, girls just generally go. But you're still a stud don't worry!

 

Sigh.

 

Well really, whats the point of these whiny redundant useless threads if I can't poke fun at the avg. US males lack of tact in the sack?

 

Look: If you try and make a move, and get her to break up with her Boyf, you will set an evil precedent. She will have already cheated on someone! You can say it's true love, but it's also cheating. Why wouldn't she do that to you then? If you *ahem* "love" her, then wait. If she loves you, she will come to you. And if she loves him, well, uh, sorry. FIND SOMEONE ELSE!

[Guest Agent of Oblivion]

Definitely make a move on her. I'd rather have a short sexually intense relationship than a prolonged friendship on a shitty foundation of sexual tension and sappy, woulda coulda shoulda horseshit. That's for emo kids.

[Guest The Old Me]

I would go ahead and try having an intimate relationship. If you're both adults, you should be able to be friends afterwords.