How young is too young?

[Guest Lord of The Curry]

I'm not going to beat around the bush here or make up bullshit like "this is happening to my friend" or something.

 

I'm 19. I have been offered the oppurtunity to be "friends with benefits" with a 15 year old. Is she willing? Oh yeah. Am I? I dunno....

 

Legally, age of consent is 14 so I don't have to worry about getting sent to the clink for it, but morally and socially is another issue. Although I've known many guys who've messed around with younger girls, the issue is normally kept "between the guys". The second word gets out, everybody pretends not to know the guy. I really don't want that to happen to me.

 

I'm fence-sitting currently, leaning towards not doing it at all because the negatives really outweight the positives in this case. The positives are that I get laid, the negatives are that her parents find out and do something, my parents find out and kill me, my friends find out etc.

 

To the guys: Would you do it?

To the girls: Would you look down on a guy if he fooled around with somebody younger then him?

 

Thanks for your time,

 

LOTC

[Guest Sandman9000]

Right now, I'm a college freshmen, and I'm not going for anyone who isn't in college. Hell, I think a sophmore girl would be as high as I would go.

 

I tend to stick to close to my age, about a year apart at most.

[Guest HollywoodSpikeJenkins]

What would your parents do? Ground you?

[Guest T®ITEC]

I really wouldn't look down on a guy fooling around with a younger person.. If they were both over 18. As is, in your case, I wouldn't do it.

 

It's just my opinion that girls under the age of 18 shouldn't have sex.

 

If I were a guy, I wouldn't do it. So there you go.

[Guest Lord of The Curry]

Usually "2 over, 2 under" is my rule, but this is a once in a lifetime oppurtunity (at least for me) and the girl seems really willing to be my sweet sweet love slave..........

 

And this could also kill whatever social rep I have.

[Guest Lord of The Curry]

super- Sex is possible, though not likely. Just some friendly touching and such. I mean, I'm a virgin and I at least want to have some semblence of caring for the person I do it with.

[Guest T®ITEC]

Don't do it.

 

If you end up alone in ten years, you can come and kick my ass.

[Guest HollywoodSpikeJenkins]

If your social rep is being a loser (Which I think it is ) then who cares?

[Guest HollywoodSpikeJenkins]

I'm a virgin

lol!

 

 

If all of us weren't so mature ( ), then you just admitted the wrong thing on the wrong board.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Im just joking...

 

 

Seriously, I am.

[Guest Lord of The Curry]

I can't really think of a witty retort to Spike's loser comment so.........uh.....gee.........uh.....

 

CHRIS JERICHO SUCKS!!! YEAH!

 

*smiles to himself*

[Guest LaParkaMarka]

Well, you probably shouldn't, if you really value your social rep and whatnot. You won't lose social standing for *not* banging the girl...if anything, it could make you seem rather moral. So the cons outweigh the pros.

 

I'm sure someone is going to call you a child molester or something for even considering it. Try and shrug it off.

[Guest HollywoodSpikeJenkins]

I can't really think of a witty retort to Spike's loser comment so.........uh.....gee.........uh.....

 

CHRIS JERICHO SUCKS!!! YEAH!

 

*smiles to himself*

*points finger really hard*

 

 

*thinks*

 

 

 

AHHH

 

VIRGIN!

[Guest HollywoodSpikeJenkins]

I'm sure someone is going to call you a child molester or something for even considering it.

Yeah, that would probably be me...

 

 

 

PEDOPHILER!

[Guest HBK16]

Just tell everyone here you didnt do it and tell your friends nothing if you really want to do it. I mean, none of us will ever find out anyways, and if its kept good, none of your friends will either. But if it was me, I don't think I would. But diferent people have diferent oppinions and I don't know how your mind works.

[Guest Lord of The Curry]

Well, she's turning 16 soon if that makes a difference (and to some people it might).

 

Believe it or not, the social rep thing isnt that big of a deal, as most of my friends have told me to go for it. My biggest fear is that she'll think this means we're going to get married some day and try and start a real relationship.

 

It's known as the "Pussy Trap" amongst my friends, happened to a guy I know last year. He had his "regular" that would come over to his house every day for some, then after she realized she wouldn't get a boyfriend out of this, she said she'd quit giving him head unless he went out with her. They're still together right now.

 

Then again, if I just told her that it was for fun she might understand......

[Guest HollywoodSpikeJenkins]

Now that you put it that way...

 

 

Don't do it.

[Guest Lord of The Curry]

Like I said, I probably won't, I'm just curious as to what others would do in my place and it seems most would do the same.

[Guest Incandenza]

If I didn't have to worry about any of the baggage that comes with it, I'd be hittin' up a lot of 15-year-olds, but I don't think I'm alone in feeling that. As for dating them...no. They are way too different at that age. They're kids, and I'm not looking for a relationship with that. Now, I wouldn't go any younger than 18.

[Guest HollywoodSpikeJenkins]

She probably likes Arran Carter or whatever that little fag is.

[Guest cobainwasmurdered]

Do not do it. If she was 17 or 18 then MAYBE, but 15 going on 16 is wayyyy too young.

[Guest Lord of The Curry]

Spike- Nah, she's not like that. Really intelligent for her age and we've got a lot in common and stuff. Somebody has quite the skewed view of 15 year olds.......

[Guest papacita]

I'm 19 and personally I wouldn't go younger than 16...and even that's stretching it. I say no.

[Rob E Dangerously 0]

if she's got grass on the field.. play ball!

 

j/k

[Guest LaParkaMarka]

Some 15 year olds are way more mature than plenty of 20-somethings I know.

 

That being said, I personally think it's kind of hard to emotionally connect with someone with that big a gap. Not just in age, but in life experiences and whatnot. Which is why dating a high school girl once you're out of high school is generally a bad idea.

[Guest HollywoodSpikeJenkins]

But LOFC, Just Think, of what it would be like...

 

 

 

Hmmmm

[Guest JHawk]

LOTC, I think of a joke that a college professor told me in class...

 

"My girlfriend told me I was a pedophile, and I said 'That's a pretty big word for a 12 year old'."

 

If that sentence means something, it's too young.

 

But seriously man, I wouldn't do it.

[Guest HollywoodSpikeJenkins]

"My girlfriend told me I was a pedophile, and I said 'That's a pretty big word for a 12 year old'."

 

 

 

 

 

 

BTW: Has anyone noticed this is my 9th post in this thread?

[Guest JHawk]

Actually, Spike, we hadn't. We really don't give a damn.

[Guest EricMM]

Its up to you. If you like her and want to date her, then date her.

 

If you want to make her you're love slave, then you're a bad person and we all env... I mean you shouldn't do it!

 

Seriously. 15 year old girls are people too, and if she likes you well, go for it. But don't ever be a dick, especially when there's a 3-4 year age difference, that's dirty

[Guest HollywoodSpikeJenkins]

Actually, Spike, we hadn't. We really don't give a damn.

*Big Boots JHawk*