Guest TheGame2705 Posted July 20, 2003 Report Posted July 20, 2003 Now the real question is will his wife divorce him after this is all said and done? He already admitted to cheating on her, will she be smart and get rid of him or will she be stupid and take him back? Once a cheater, always a cheater. Now I must say that this in particular I thought was funny.
Guest TheZsaszHorsemen Posted July 20, 2003 Report Posted July 20, 2003 Wait, don't tell me that TSA's been unfaithful.
Guest Texas Small Arms 09 Posted July 20, 2003 Report Posted July 20, 2003 Well I have already stated in the LSD folder in some thread that I was cheated on (and lied to many times) and to get back at him I cheated on him as well. But I got rid of him and found someone who knows how to treat me right. Like you said Zsasz, people can change and after my relationship ended I changed a lot about myself and decided that my next relationship would be a serious one and I wouldn't play games. But I have also seen people close to me catch their boyfriends in bed with other women and continue to take them back each time they cheat.
Guest TheZsaszHorsemen Posted July 20, 2003 Report Posted July 20, 2003 Well I have already stated in the LSD folder in some thread that I was cheated on (and lied to many times) and to get back at him I cheated on him as well. But I got rid of him and found someone who knows how to treat me right. Like you said Zsasz, people can change and after my relationship ended I changed a lot about myself and decided that my next relationship would be a serious one and I wouldn't play games. But I have also seen people close to me catch their boyfriends in bed with other women and continue to take them back each time they cheat. I'm not judging you TSA, I don't have the right to. I was just asking.
Guest Texas Small Arms 09 Posted July 20, 2003 Report Posted July 20, 2003 I never thought you were judging. I did want to give some sort of explaination for my statement.
Guest TheGame2705 Posted July 20, 2003 Report Posted July 20, 2003 I cheated on him Once a cheater, always a cheater
Guest Texas Small Arms 09 Posted July 20, 2003 Report Posted July 20, 2003 I cheated on him only after I found out he was married and he deserved it.
Guest SP-1 Posted July 20, 2003 Report Posted July 20, 2003 Two wrongs dont' make a right though. I think that's what they're getting at. However, you did admit that people can change. So it seems a little contradictory to continue using "Once a cheater, always a cheater," once that admission is made. Not that you specifically have. But you're kinda defending it still. I don't care one way or the other, just trying to offer an outside analysis.
Guest Texas Small Arms 09 Posted July 20, 2003 Report Posted July 20, 2003 For the most part it works. And you are right two wrongs don't make a right, but at the time I was very pissed off (it being my birthday and all) so sure, I did something I wasn't proud of. But looking back he deserved it for everything he put me through. Now I have moved on and found a man that fits me better.
Guest EricMM Posted July 20, 2003 Report Posted July 20, 2003 millions and millions of dollars can do a lot for a spouse's understanding.
Guest SP-1 Posted July 20, 2003 Report Posted July 20, 2003 For the most part it works. And you are right two wrongs don't make a right, but at the time I was very pissed off (it being my birthday and all) so sure, I did something I wasn't proud of. But looking back he deserved it for everything he put me through. Now I have moved on and found a man that fits me better. Aye. No judgement from me there. Just pointing out their possible thought process.
Guest Bruiser Chong Posted July 20, 2003 Report Posted July 20, 2003 I've never understood why someone could take offense or be bothered by something someone did and so to ammend it, they went and did it themselves. Their excuse most of the time is, "I did it because they did it." As if that really excuses you. Obviously you'll be hurting if someone cheats on you, but turning around and doing the exact same thing because of that doesn't make things better, it just makes you a hypocrite.
Guest Texas Small Arms 09 Posted July 20, 2003 Report Posted July 20, 2003 I'll be the first to admit it was stupid, however only certain people know what the situation was and so when I cheated I felt as if I did nothing wrong. I wouldn't think of cheating again, but a lot of reasons went into why I cheated.
Guest kkktookmybabyaway Posted July 21, 2003 Report Posted July 21, 2003 My insta-opinion: TSA sounds a bit hypocritical, especially since she did "cheat" herself, but I have probably contradicted myself numerous times at this place in some way or fashion, so I really don't care. I don't think her lesser half needs to contact a P.I. or anything. Yet...
Guest Texas Small Arms 09 Posted July 21, 2003 Report Posted July 21, 2003 Tony knows I would never cheat on him. Why would I want to ruin a perfectly good, strong relationship?
Guest Texas Small Arms 09 Posted July 21, 2003 Report Posted July 21, 2003 Not my thing, besides when I get horny I just masturbate and all is better.
Guest Downhome Posted July 21, 2003 Report Posted July 21, 2003 When someone cheats on you, why do some people feel inclined to just go find someone and cheat right back, on the original cheating party? Not only is it pointless, other than playing an immature childish game, it is a total disregard for the feelings and emotions of the one that you are cheating with, to get back at the guy who originally cheated on yourself.
Guest T®ITEC Posted July 21, 2003 Report Posted July 21, 2003 My question is this: Why do women always get so terribly upset because their boyfriend cheats on them? I'm just missing something, I guess. I fail to see why it's THE WORST THING EVER~
Guest CanadianChick Posted July 21, 2003 Report Posted July 21, 2003 My question is this: Why do women always get so terribly upset because their boyfriend cheats on them? I'm just missing something, I guess. I fail to see why it's THE WORST THING EVER~ I can't really speak from experience, but it's probably because it's a violation of trust. And maybe the girl really loves the guy. I dunno, I've never had a boyfriend or anything, but I can guess.
Guest Downhome Posted July 21, 2003 Report Posted July 21, 2003 A girl who I was with for almost three years ended up cheating on me. It was going on for a while, and the reason I didn't really know about it is that it only happened on Pro. Wrestling nights while I was watching TV (I spent virtually EVERY minute with her while awake other than those few hours a week). I didn't get all smartassy and try to "get back" at her. I just ended out relationship, and moved on with my life. To me, there is no use wasting your time on someone, no matter what type of time, on someone who would do you like that. It hurt like a bitch, and I still get down about it deep down when I think about it, but that's life, just got to move on.
Guest T®ITEC Posted July 21, 2003 Report Posted July 21, 2003 My question is this: Why do women always get so terribly upset because their boyfriend cheats on them? I'm just missing something, I guess. I fail to see why it's THE WORST THING EVER~ I can't really speak from experience, but it's probably because it's a violation of trust. And maybe the girl really loves the guy. I dunno, I've never had a boyfriend or anything, but I can guess. Meh, okay. Good enough for me. I really wouldn't care if I caught my boyfriend getting all up ons with some other girl. It's just not the sort of thing that would personally offend me.
Guest Downhome Posted July 21, 2003 Report Posted July 21, 2003 My question is this: Why do women always get so terribly upset because their boyfriend cheats on them? I'm just missing something, I guess. I fail to see why it's THE WORST THING EVER~ I can't really speak from experience, but it's probably because it's a violation of trust. And maybe the girl really loves the guy. I dunno, I've never had a boyfriend or anything, but I can guess. Meh, okay. Good enough for me. I really wouldn't care if I caught my boyfriend getting all up ons with some other girl. It's just not the sort of thing that would personally offend me. If I were you, I wouldn't share that information with any of your boyfriends in the future.
Guest Downhome Posted July 21, 2003 Report Posted July 21, 2003 Why not? If they know you don't care, depending on what type of guy we're talking about, they may look at it as an opening for free play...if you willlllllllllllllll.
Guest CanadianChick Posted July 21, 2003 Report Posted July 21, 2003 Well, she might want a open relationship...
Guest Downhome Posted July 21, 2003 Report Posted July 21, 2003 Well, she might want a open relationship... What type of relationship is it ok for either party to fuck other people? Perhaps I just have more of a definition of the word "relationship".
Guest T®ITEC Posted July 21, 2003 Report Posted July 21, 2003 I just don't care if he's sleeping around, so long as I don't get any freakin' disease. I'm more about the "companion" aspect, I guess.
Guest Ingram Paladin Posted July 21, 2003 Report Posted July 21, 2003 Kobe CAN cheat.....just look at him. None of the rest of you can.
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