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Guest pinnacleofallthingsmanly

Don't do drugs and stay in school.

 

the best sex my ex and I ever had was when he were ripped on E.

 

You had a boyfriend?

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Well not really an update but the new girl hasn't really been shying away from me since that little incident when that guy told her I liked her. In fact, she seems a little not much but a little attractive to me. Putting her head on my shoulder, saying hi, staring at me. So, I'm relieved.

 

Oh and I got a date for my Junior High prom.

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Guest dreamer420
Don't do drugs and stay in school.

 

the best sex my ex and I ever had was when he were ripped on E.

 

You had a boyfriend?

nah, actually it was your old lady.  your sister might have been there too but I can't really remember.

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Guest cobainwasmurdered
Oh and I got a date for my Junior High prom.

really? I didn't know Junior high kids could afford Escort Services!

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5 bucks Says he posts a thread the day after the prom asking for advice because he screwed up with the chick.

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Guest evenflowDDT
is she hot though?

Yeah she's pretty.

Lucky... I went with one of my friends to prom, and much as anyone who's read the "who's the more attractive poster" thread and seen my prom pic from this year, she's certainly not.

 

No offense intended to her of course, but it's true.  Damn, and to think I just apologized to her today for acting like a prick off and on several years ago... I guess I can become as self-righteous and polite and meek as I want, but in the end I'll always be a prick.

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don't focus on girls, focus on your future.

Ahh, if only it were that easy.  I know I've felt low for years because I've never been in a relationship, and now that I'll be entering college not only a virgin virgin (which I can deal with) but a relationship virgin as well makes me feel ever more of a fool.  It's ingrained in our minds as a part of American pop culture (and probably western pop culture in general) that if we haven't had X amount of relationships by the end of high school we're social misfits who will never amount to anything romantically (which, given how distressed I am at even the thought of involvement with anyone, is probably true for me).  It also doesn't make you feel any better about not having anyone when everyone else around you does.

 

I can't believe this thread is still going on either, but might as well take advantage of it for what it's worth, right? A sorta friend of mine who I think is very attractive left me her phone number in my yearbook, but I doubt she wants to be anything more than friends.  I have no problems with this but... [stereotypical teenage male]she's SOOOOO hot, and I've heard if she drinks she goes really far really easily (the only reason she didn't give it up was because the guy she was going to give it up to already had a kid), so I could actually NOT be a loser and enter college a virgin![/stereotypical teenage male] Also, there's my pessimism surfacing that says she doesn't want to do anything with me period, and that she was just leaving her number to be polite.  But then, nobody is polite where I'm at except me... so, any thoughts would be appreciated, if nothing else so I can do the exact opposite and complain when all goes wrong ;)

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i've been through more than my share of fucked up shit with the opposite sex, and recently I realized that every girl I have been with in the past is someone I would never be with now.  all i want is someone who is honest and truthful and can deal with my wrestling obsession, friends, and pot smoking.  i hope to god she is out there.

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Quote (pinnacleofallthingsmanly @ May 31 2002,22:06)

Don't do drugs and stay in school.

 

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the best sex my ex and I ever had was when he were ripped on E.

 

 

 

 

You had a boyfriend?

 

nah, actually it was your old lady.  your sister might have been there too but I can't really remember.

 

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Are your memories of it in black and white? That means you were dreaming. Don't get mad with me for asking you about something you said. I wasn't condemning you for having a boyfriend, and given your troubles with/disenfranchisement with girls I wouldn't necessarily be shocked if you did have a boyfriend.

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Guest Big Poppa Popick

hey evenflow...

some hope for ya

 

i went into college in your same situation

things worked out, i met people...socialized...just had to get away from the rents ya know?

 

right now, im dating the best girl ive ever had, and even though shes moving to pittsburgh for a bit (12 hour drive) i couldnt really be happier...now that im graduating in the fall, ive learned alot of things...

 

at least, when i have a relationship, it means something...

so no worries dood...youre not the only one, most people are

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Guest pinnacleofallthingsmanly

Why would I be disappointed about you getting dumped by some girl?

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Guest godthedog
don't focus on girls, focus on your future.

Ahh, if only it were that easy.  I know I've felt low for years because I've never been in a relationship, and now that I'll be entering college not only a virgin virgin (which I can deal with) but a relationship virgin as well makes me feel ever more of a fool.  It's ingrained in our minds as a part of American pop culture (and probably western pop culture in general) that if we haven't had X amount of relationships by the end of high school we're social misfits who will never amount to anything romantically (which, given how distressed I am at even the thought of involvement with anyone, is probably true for me).  It also doesn't make you feel any better about not having anyone when everyone else around you does.

 

I can't believe this thread is still going on either, but might as well take advantage of it for what it's worth, right? A sorta friend of mine who I think is very attractive left me her phone number in my yearbook, but I doubt she wants to be anything more than friends.  I have no problems with this but... [stereotypical teenage male]she's SOOOOO hot, and I've heard if she drinks she goes really far really easily (the only reason she didn't give it up was because the guy she was going to give it up to already had a kid), so I could actually NOT be a loser and enter college a virgin![/stereotypical teenage male] Also, there's my pessimism surfacing that says she doesn't want to do anything with me period, and that she was just leaving her number to be polite.  But then, nobody is polite where I'm at except me... so, any thoughts would be appreciated, if nothing else so I can do the exact opposite and complain when all goes wrong ;)

it's all kool and the gang, when i came into college i'd never had sex or been in a relationship, & i'd barely even kissed a girl before.

 

i DEFINITELY know where you're coming from with all your friends having people to be with.  by the time i came to college i was completely convinced that it was my station in life to be the outsider and never have anybody.  it took a while, but about a year after that i was involved with a friend of mine who had been the girl of my dreams literally for 6 years.  we eventually broke up, but that's not the point, i still wouldn't trade the experience for anything.

 

i don't really know what advice to give you, cause everybody always told me "hey, it's okay, you'll find somebody" and it always royally pissed me off.  but, lo and behold, it did turn out to be true.  so i guess you should just do what i did: convince yourself that you'll always be alone but try anyway whenever an opportunity comes (even though each time seems to hurt more than the last), and give lots of detailed relationship advice to your dumbass friends.  i can't guarantee that'll work, but it worked for me.

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Guest The Superstar

BUMP! :lol:

 

 

Even though the original, classic post isn't there, it's written out in One Bad Apple's post. ENJOY~!

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Guest Incandenza

Even though I'm a loser, I somehow managed to get laid before graduating high school. The thought boggles my mind to this day, over five years after the fact.

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