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I enjoy the same things as my friend.  He has a problem which is pushing me to beat the fuck out of him for, he is a closeted racist.  He claims that his race is better at everything than any other race, and he has made me feel uncomfortable when my family visits.  He also says that certain races only like certain popular TV shows, movies, and wrestlers.  He also bashes other races when he can't get a job, or when something happens to them.  He has also attacked people who are mixed-hertiage, and or have family members who hapen to be of different races.  I'm writing this because I need an alternative solution besides violence, which would make me look bad.

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Guest Some Guy

I'm assuming the kid is white.  Ask him why he feels his race is better than others.  And then simply refute his points.  Don't do it an aggressive manner, but be calm and counter his arguments with facts.  BTW if he attacks minorities and makes racial slurs, he's not a closet racist.

If countering his bigotry with logic doesn't work, just ask him to not say racist things around you.

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Guest Choken One

One way to solve your problems is to toss the guy aside...sounds like an underachving bum to me...or do what a co-worker of mine did...His father was a mega-racist (KKK member) and he never got along with him. So, he brings home his Black friend Tony, a big brute (Think Ron Simmons brute) and kisses him right on the mouth in front of his father. His father passed out and he moved.

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Guest cobainwasmurdered

Well I had the same problem with a couple of my friends Mario. One i just stopped hanging out with and the other who I grew up with I told him that I didn't agree with his thoughts but I wasn't going to lecture him and if he wanted to be like that he could just not around me.

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Guest PYNAGE
I'm assuming the kid is white.  Ask him why he feels his race is better than others.  And then simply refute his points.  Don't do it an aggressive manner, but be calm and counter his arguments with facts.  BTW if he attacks minorities and makes racial slurs, he's not a closet racist.

If countering his bigotry with logic doesn't work, just ask him to not say racist things around you.

 

 

Now , Why is it that you assume this kid is white?

 

Doing that simply exposes your own ignorance.  He may in fact BE white,  but your assumption simply cements youas no better than the kid in question , thereby rendering any 'advice'

you may give rather pointless.

 

People of all races and creeds can be afflicted with this kind of superiority complex. I know many people that feel this way  , be they Black ,Asian or white. This is not to say I like these people , as this behavior sickens me . I am simply saying that this kid could be any race .

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Guest Some Guy

First off I'm white myself so it wasn't a knock against my own race.  I made an assumption based on this quote, "He also bashes other races when he can't get a job".  That led me to believe that he is a disgruntled white guy bitching about Affirmative Action.  I also think it would be far easier to refute a white person's racism than that of a minority, who have been subjected to far worse treatment in America than whites, which is needless to say.  Sorry if I offended you, but I don't need to lectured to about how racism comes from all races.  I'm quite aware of that and have witnessed more true racism by Balck people to whites than vice versa.  By "real racism" I'm mean people who really hate, not people who make jokes and don't really mean it.  

 

You're logic of me being no better than the racist kid makes little sense.  My assumption that he was someone off my own race makes my advice some how null and void?  Did you actually read what I wrote after the 1st sentance?  If so did you find my advice to be stupid or a good method for solving Mario's problem?  Or did you just not read it because whatever I had to say is null and void?

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Guest cobainwasmurdered

just tell him not to say any of that racist shit where you can hear it. talk it out with him, if he's a REAL friend he'll understand how you feel.

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Guest One Bad Apple
He has a problem which is pushing me to beat the fuck out of him for, he is a closeted racist.

He can't be that racist—after all, you and Luigi are Italians.  Then again, maybe he just thinks you're making fun of them with those overdone accents, I dunno.

 

He claims that his race is better at everything than any other race, and he has made me feel uncomfortable when my family visits.

So having your black friend over when your family visits is making you uncomfortable?!  He should be posting about you!

 

He also bashes other races when he can't get a job ...

INTERVIEWER:

I'm sorry, but you're not what we're looking for right now.

 

MARIO'S FRIEND:

Huh?  Why not?

 

INTERVIEWER:

Well ... mainly all the stuff you said about how us ... "slanty-eyed fuckers" ... couldn't even cook ... "Chink rice" better than you.  

 

MARIO'S FRIEND

Goddamn Daytona 500 ... still fucking with me!

 

He has also attacked people who are mixed-hertiage, and or have family members who hapen to be of different races.

People shouldn't have to live in fear of getting attacked.  That's why we all need to carry bigger knives.

 

I'm writing this because I need an alternative solution besides violence, which would make me look bad.

You better believe it makes you look bad.  

 

I once busted through some old man's face with a pickaxe because he might've swore at me in Russian.  After that, no one wanted to mess with me.

 

But, hey ... even if you didn't know that story?  You still wouldn't have messed.  'Cause everything about me screams, "This apple's bad."  Except in the library—I'd never be that rude.

 

But I'll always be ... this ... bad.

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Guest Mystery Eskimo
Except in the library—I'd never be that rude.

You shouldn't go easy on those library motherfuckers.

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He can't be that racist—after all, you and Luigi are Italians.  

I'm not italian.  I'm Mexican/Spanish/German.  He sayst that the white part of me makes me inferior to him and his superior race, and my mother happens to be white.  He is not aware that I'm part Hispanic, he claims that they are lazy and havent contributed anything to the world.  Today I plan to confront him about his attitude.

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