Im going to need some advice..

[Hawk 34 0]

Animation doesn't work for first dates, DVC brings up the possibility of a post-movie religious confrontation, MI3 is popcorn fare. SNE by all accounts will have her walking out because of the absurd stupidity of it all.

 

Also, I've found going to a movie you already seen before hand is a good thing. This way you know the story and the "it" moments, so you know when to compliment her, play around a little(although I have a feeling it won't be an issue for you) and you don't need to focus on the movie as much.

[Guest]

Do not go see DVC or any movie like it. High chance of confrontation.

[MrRant 0]

Yeah, DVC would be a bad idea.

 

Something light hearted or scary would be good.

[MarvinisaLunatic 0]

Yeah, DVC would be a bad idea.

 

Something light hearted or scary would be good.

 

Im guessing the concensus is Posiedon then?

[JangoFett4Hire 0]

Art School Confidential.

[MarvinisaLunatic 0]

Art School Confidential.

 

16 screens, not on one of them

[Hawk 34 0]

No, MI3 is the choice to take. It's a popcorn movie, which means you can get into it but not have to pay complete attention to it while talking/playing with each other.

[RedJed 0]

Poseidon is a good date movie - lovey dovey shit in it too, but then again so does MI3. Either one is a good date movie.

 

Bottom line, you got your chance now full out - just be chill and see what happens. If she starts dropping body language hints when you two hang out, dude - you better fucking go for it because if you dont, there is your chance you had to maybe get into a relationship and you might not have it again if the first time is a letdown for her or she just generally sees its not going to go anywhere because of your lack of taking control of the situation. She seems from these messages genuinly interested in you and considering all the shit you've been throwing her way with the back and forth behaviour, consider yourself very lucky you still have this chance. Make the most of it, period!

[Guest Princess Leena]

Not to be a negative nanny...

 

But, if you do end up meeting "Heaven", Marv... I'd be careful. Just about every female I know would have stopped talking to you weeks ago. This smells a little fishy.

[Hawk 34 0]

Wait, is this movie only? I don't approve of movie only first dates. There's very little time to adjust to each other, while you might know each other via IM/Net, it's another world once you actually meet them.

 

There's a reason that dinner usually proceeds a movie for first dates, to get comfortable. While 99% of girls know what will happen after the first five minutes, dinner offers a chance for her to open up and that leads to more intimacy during the movie.

 

Going into a movie cold is always a risk for first dates, especially when you don't know them particularly well in person.

[MarvinisaLunatic 0]

Im actually for some reason taking an optimistic view on things (Id hate to think I've turned over a new leaf and become an optimist all of a sudden..) It has to be blatantly obvious to her that I have no experience at all when it comes to dating and the like, and if she's willing to put up with my blundering around like she has than thats definitely a plus in my favor.

 

I really doubt that I will end up lucky enough to find/meet someone else with the same patience for a 24 year old without a lick of experience.. Granted, Im expecting this to not work out in the long run, but if I can get a few dates out of it at least I can chaulk it up to experience/learning lesson and move on then that would be a big sucess for me.

 

Oh, and unfortunately time restraints eliminate the possibility of dinner or anything else before the movie.

[Guest Princess Leena]

It's not the lack of experience that's hurting you...

[MarvinisaLunatic 0]

It's not the lack of experience that's hurting you...

 

Its not helping either.

[Hawk 34 0]

We all lacked experience at one point or another. We all move from it.

[MarvinisaLunatic 0]

We all lacked experience at one point or another. We all move from it.

 

I understand that, but its taken me a good 8-10 years longer than most to even get motivated to try, and I haven't even managed anything more than 3 horrible meeting experiences. It sorta feels like I should still be in elementary school..

[EricMM 0]

Marvin = Billy Madison

[MarvinisaLunatic 0]

I was just thinking about how upbeat I've been the last couple of days..being off from work and my birthday this week certainly are contributing factors but still..

 

I work tomorrow but fortunately not a long shift, but it should at least help keep my mind off things til I get home.

[Guest Princess Leena]

Don't worry.

 

You'll screw things up and be depressed again.

[MarvinisaLunatic 0]

Thank you for your non vote of confidence.

[JangoFett4Hire 0]

No offense dude, but you've earned it. It's up to you to go out and prove her wrong. DO IT!

Go out and have fun with it.

[Hawk 34 0]

Heaven: What's wrong?

Marvin: Oh, nothing. I'm just sad.

Heaven: Why?

Marvin: A pretty girl at this wrestling message board said I'm going to screw this up.

 

I wonder which part would send her away first?

[Guest wildpegasus]

So tomorrow's the big day? Can't wait!

[The Niggardly King 0]

So tomorrow's the big day? Can't wait!

 

It's not like you're going out with him...

[JangoFett4Hire 0]

Pegasus- stop living vicariously through Mahvin and get off your ass and make it happen for yourself. Why not you?

[Guest wildpegasus]

Pegasus- stop living vicariously through Mahvin and get off your ass and make it happen for yourself. Why not you?

 

For various reasons, I don't have any money coming in right now. I will have some soon but I think I might be moving come July or August.

[Hawk 34 0]

Same goes with me, stop reading about my life and trying to place yourself in it, WP.

 

 

You don't need money to get laid, well okay maybe YOU do but the whole process of dating and meeting someone isn't dependant on money.

[Guest wildpegasus]

Same goes with me, stop reading about my life and trying to place yourself in it, WP.

 

 

You don't need money to get laid, well okay maybe YOU do but the whole process of dating and meeting someone isn't dependant on money.

 

Umm, that's a little arrogant there on your part to assume I'd want to place myself in your life; isn't it?

 

Right now, I am happy with myself. I am proud for the most part of my personality and my physique though I wish I could have more muscle as I am too skinny.

 

I am frustrated with my depression and at times my shyness however.

 

 

Yes, I know you don't need money to get laid but it actually does help quite a bit and physcologically I need that for my confidence with women. I can be extremely self concious (however you spell that) It's just the way I am. Maybe it's partly because I've never had much money my whole life.

[Hawk 34 0]

You spent the last week trying to analyze my relationship with my ex and then my new relationshiop trying to assume you knew what I "really meant", that is text-book example of trying to place yourself in someone's shoes.

 

You want my life, it's why you follow everything I say. You want anyone's life except yours. Why else would you involve yourself into other's stories. Why else would you analyze them, when you can't usually relate.

[MarvinisaLunatic 0]

Heaven: What's wrong?

Marvin: Oh, nothing. I'm just sad.

Heaven: Why?

Marvin: A pretty girl at this wrestling message board said I'm going to screw this up.

 

I wonder which part would send her away first?

 

I still think the oddest part of this is that Leena is on her friends list and Im not.

 

And while I want to just ignore WP, I would like to mention that Im not exactly rolling in the dough either.

[Guest wildpegasus]

You spent the last week trying to analyze my relationship with my ex and then my new relationshiop trying to assume you knew what I "really meant", that is text-book example of trying to place yourself in someone's shoes.

 

You want my life, it's why you follow everything I say. You want anyone's life except yours. Why else would you involve yourself into other's stories. Why else would you analyze them, when you can't usually relate.

 

?????????? You follow everything I say. You've been doing it for months on end!!!! From my stripper stories to my cashier stories to now.

 

Are you purposely leading me on for revenge for the relationship/ex thread? Tell the truth.