I would say that avoiding conflict is definitely reasonable for some people, and if thats what she wants, then more power to her.
But for one avoiding conflict, she has caused a fair share of it in the past. Not that that is a bad thing, some of the most memorable names on this board and others are the ones with some of the most divisive, reactive, or derogitory things to say.
Almost none of my favorite posters are as nice as me, which means I may not be anyone's favorite poster. Oh well.