And I'm saying that if he can't convince her to meet in person, he shouldn't be worried about her leaving to go back to LA. He shouldn't be emotionally invested in someone that he hasn't sat across from yet, and from what I gathered by his choice of words doesn't even know what he looks except via a description that he was very much worried about. This dude is gonna get hurt by a chick that he knows nothing about, and he wonders why he ends up in this situation regularly.