snuffbox 0 Report post Posted February 27, 2004 I believe I posted this fucked up story on here last summer, but for those that missed it here is a quick synopsis - My ex-girlfriend has a 3 year old son, whom I have helped raise over the last few years. His father, while an integral and good figure in his life, had become very involved in gambling unfortunately. Her and I had broken up nearly 2 years ago, but have remained close since, and I have helped when neccessary. In the meanwhile she had met another young dude and 'fallen in love'. Last June she broke up with the new guy, and by mere happenstance it was the day that 'new guy' first met/hung out with the the father of her young son. After the breakup the new guy started living with the father until he was going to move back to his homestate. Sadly, the fathers gambling problems caught up to him, and they and another friend were murdered in one night. A few weeks later she learned she was pregnant. This past Wed she had the baby, 12 days early, but healthy. Its a boy. Ive been at the hospital with her since...been a very new experience. There is a slight chance this baby could be mine and I will take a pat test in a few weeks to determine that. In any case, I will remain close to her, and help her and her children in the ways that I can. Anybody with comments for me are welcome to post them. Im actually pretty happy about the whole time, doing this has made me feel quite good....but also very tired. -if this shouldve been in the LSD folder...moddies can do their thingy. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest FrigidSoul Report post Posted February 27, 2004 If this kid isn't yours then fucking bolt. Way I see it is she's gonna go out with you till she gets sick of you, then go out with somebody else, get knocked up again and should the father leave come running back to you because you're willing to take care of kids that aren't yours. You are an absolute moron if you continue helping to support these children in any way because the children will become attatched to you but she's never going to fully be with you from what it seems. Thus children suffer You suffer Girl gets to keep sleeping around without worrying if the guy will leave her cause she has her trust crutch named...well whatever your real name is. If the kid is yours though then here's to hoping you get to at least have a good relationship with the child. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
snuffbox 0 Report post Posted February 27, 2004 Uhhh...Frigid...the other fathers are dead. You clearly dont understand this...nevermind you.... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest FrigidSoul Report post Posted February 27, 2004 Its not your fault the other fathers are dead. Just because they're dead doesn't mean your obligated to raise whatever babies she continues spitting out that aren't your own. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TSA09 0 Report post Posted February 27, 2004 I think it's very sweet of you to do all this. Obviously you didn't have to, but I think something told you you should help her as best you can. Do you still love her? Is there a chance she still loves you? Even if the child isn't yours, it sounds like you are debating helping raise it. If this is the case, I applaud you and respect you. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kkktookmybabyaway 0 Report post Posted February 28, 2004 Sucker... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
snuffbox 0 Report post Posted February 28, 2004 Thanks TSA... Im finally back from the hospital, and all is good. I have no intentions of marriage or raising this child or anything like that. Its just that I do still care for/about her, and I realize she still loves me. I will always remain close to her and her kids...I care about both and this week definitly cemented that. I have many goals and ambitions in life. Im working fulltime in between college semesters, and I will be travelling this summer and next. But after all her tragedies, and the obvious fact that children deserve a good life, I will remain close/in touch and help and care however and whenver I can. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest FrigidSoul Report post Posted February 28, 2004 Have fun when she asks you if you can watch the kids for a bit, you agree and some guy picks her up shortly after you arrive to watch the kids. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
snuffbox 0 Report post Posted February 28, 2004 We dont live together...I dont babysit unless Im with her. But hey man, if you'll sleep better at night to feel Im bein used...go for it buddy. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest FrigidSoul Report post Posted February 28, 2004 You're spouting off about how you're willing to help take care of 2 kids(with 1 deffinately not yours and the second one possibly not yours). She's going to take advantage of this as much as possible. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
snuffbox 0 Report post Posted February 28, 2004 Just typed up what was goin on with me. Sorry youre taking my life so seriously guy. S'all gonna be alright. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
