"dont give up thats not kool"
Words to live by (kinda. It's actually 'don't' and 'cool' but we all get he point...)
Dude, you are putting way too much pressure on yourself. Play it cool. When you send women messages like that, it screams DESPERATION. And women smell desperation easier than dogs smell fear. You wanna aim more for the nonchalant end of the spectrum. Not totally "eh, whatevs" about it, but make it seem to her that you have stuff going on too, and you're not checking myspace every 5 minutes to see if she sent you. Take it from me, lunatic, I've been there. I've learned the hard way. Ladies love to be shown interest, but they freak out when you show too much this early in the game.