Wait, wait....luke-o, you dated a girl with a tongue ring and she didn't suck your dick that often? Shit, you meet a guy with a tongue ring, he'll suck your dick.
No, he had brain damage! He had no idea what he was doing at the time! He was fairly competent when he was being tossed around a ring and tossing others around a ring, but he had no idea what he was doing in his personal life! It completely absolves him of guilt.
Note: my friends and I put on Friday Night Smackdown last night and it was the gayest fucking shit ever. For real.