Did you miss like..post #2 in my original thread which the fact I wanted a relationship more than I wanted the sex? Because its still true over a year today and for the first time ever I feel like Im forging a relationship that actually has a decent shot at surving (for at least a couple months anyway) with someone that actually exists and I have met. We both make each other laugh, we can talk for hours about almost anything, we tease each other about strange little things..we email/text/phone daily just about for no reasons at all..last night was an intriguing little wrinkle, but it was all based on me wanting to help her feel better and it worked because she was 100% fine this morning, and she thanked me for staying with her and helping her feel better. She told me she's never had a guy she was dating go out of his way like I did last night to help her feel better (which not only included the cuddling but aslo the fact that I brought her a loaf of cinnamon raisin bread and some ice for her head since she was out of ice and the bread was the only thing she could keep down on her stomach and she had eaten the last of the bread she had)