Maybe we're just sick of the double standard.
No, definitely.
You want nigger/nigga? Fine. But I can't say that? Messed up.
Please note that I have never ever called anyone a nigger, spic, wop, kike, chink, fag, etc etc. But I am sick and tired of having entire phrases just disallowed to me because I am white, even as my friends and companions say it. It's a freaking lexicon. Besides which, it's an insult.
I understand context, and I understand that Imus might be racist. But mightn't I be saying that someone just has a big afro? When you're dissing someone you work with what you can get...