All it takes is practice. I remember when i first started playing Super Fire Pro X, i would loose 8 of 10 grapples and got my ass handed to me several times. Once it clicked it was the best game i had ever played. The sheer amount of stuff you can do to it and the ability to tweak the cpu logic to mirror a real life wrestler is great. Again you will have a hard time getting used to the controls cuz you cant button mash like in SVR but the payoff is great. Also the first couple of matches you should put the com difficulty to 1 till you get used to the grappling system, if u leave it at default ur gonna throw the controller on the floor.