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No, it's the fact that people can reply to an opinion in a sophisticated manner instead of acting like the other's opinion is dead wrong and cannot be right. I swear, at the top of the WWE Folder, they should post a link to the definition of Opinion. If people read the definition, maybe some rabid-flamers would settle down. Maybe I'm just hoping though.

 

DFA

Please, do NOT start with the Opinions thing. There's already a poster who's argued about it to death that it's just not worth starting all over.

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Guest KJ Brackish

Sorry to bring up some apparent Bad Blood. I have no idea whats up so I'll just leave it be. :-D.... I just wish people would tone down the flaming. Heated discussions are one thing, but full blown flames are another.

 

DFA

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Well mod staff......I'll just have to keep posting and we'll have to see where it goes from there.

 

And for the record I am stubborn and I turn everything into a competition. I hate losing. I can misconstrue being passed on the highway as losing. And I do like to have the last word. And it's more subconcious than anything. I'll do it and in the aftermath when the bodies are strewn about I'll say "Oh damn......I did it again."

This is the behavior you need to change. This isn't a competition, and no one is "winning" or "losing." This is an internet messageboard. Recognize that a stranger calling you a name on the internet is precisely that: a stranger calling you a name on the internet. What possible reason is there to attach any validity to what they say? Why get so wrapped up in the fact that someone you've never met disagrees with your opinion about a worked "sport?" It's all about having some perspective. If you can gain some, we'll be fine. If not, then perhaps a vacation from this particular internet messageboard would help you gain it.

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I wish I could take said vacation. Actually I am tring to decrease the amount that I post in other folders.

But I can't be like temporarily suspended or anything because my OAOAST characters would fall apart. Can you suspend me from the WWE folder?

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Guest Loss

Done. You're suspended for a week, and then I'll unsuspend you.

 

Ok, I'm asking this because I don't have a specific opinion one way or another. How strictly should flaming or trolling be prohibited? Should it be loose interpretation of the rules or very strict? I see *A LOT* of "You're an idiot/You're a moron/You're just a bitter smark/You wouldn't be saying this if it were Benoit/HHH/Jericho/HBK/Eddy/Angle"-type stuff and it leads to hostility and going off topic to argue the posters instead of arguing the point.

 

If someone specifically throws an insult, however minor, at someone, and it ends up steering a thread away from its original purpose, should the mods step in or just let it play out?

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Excellent.........I was doing good for a while there not posting in the WWE folder around the time of football season. But now that football is over and Benoit is looking to get screwed my blood started to boil and I had to rush in there.

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Done. You're suspended for a week, and then I'll unsuspend you.

 

Ok, I'm asking this because I don't have a specific opinion one way or another. How strictly should flaming or trolling be prohibited? Should it be loose interpretation of the rules or very strict? I see *A LOT* of "You're an idiot/You're a moron/You're just a bitter smark/You wouldn't be saying this if it were Benoit/HHH/Jericho/HBK/Eddy/Angle"-type stuff and it leads to hostility and going off topic to argue the posters instead of arguing the point.

 

If someone specifically throws an insult, however minor, at someone, and it ends up steering a thread away from its original purpose, should the mods step in or just let it play out?

If it just happens once or twice, don't step in. Otherwise I'd have the feeling that I have to think twice about every little quip I post, and that would take some of the fun out of the more heated discussions. But if someone does it more often give him/her a warning.

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Guest cobainwasmurdered

calling someone an idiot is stupid. Saying "I think you're wrong because..."

 

name calling = bad

 

constructive critisicm= good

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Guest Man Of 1,004 Modes
Sorry to bring up some apparent Bad Blood. I have no idea whats up so I'll just leave it be. :-D.... I just wish people would tone down the flaming. Heated discussions are one thing, but full blown flames are another.

 

DFA

Try arguing about opinions with Ray, then you'll know...I think a very brief argument was in one of the threads posted at the top of WWE page unless it went down recently.

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Ray usually doesn't flame bait. Luckily, on WWE tv, Guerrero is getting a good push, so the WWE folder seems to be looking up (like WWE booking is). More and more discussions are arising about future programs and things of that nature. It's so hard to keep track of every poster and feud, because there are so many personalities on this board, and each one is unique, and there are always going to be radicals or flame baiters, etc.

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Guest Ray
I can't post anything on this board without getting attacked by it, because I post my OPINION.

This is something I really hate. Saying "it's my OPINION" does not mean your post(s) can't be challenged or criticized, yet you (and anyone else who says it) seem to think it does.

 

The definition of opinion is "a belief held without proof." This means opinions can be wrong if proof is provided to oppose them.

 

and I get "verbally assaulted" (God I sound like a puss) by some people on this board. I'm not going to name names, but rather, I'd just like to emphasize on how hard it is to post a message without someone jumping down your throat.

Are they "jumping down your throat", or just challenging your opinion? Because someone simply challenging or criticizing your opinion doesn't automatically equal them jumping down your throat. If you state an opinion, everyone has the right to challenge it, unless you can provide proof to support it. I don't know for certain, but you seem to think all you have to say is "OPINION" and that's it.

 

No, it's the fact that people can reply to an opinion in a sophisticated manner instead of acting like the other's opinion is dead wrong and cannot be right. I swear, at the top of the WWE Folder, they should post a link to the definition of Opinion.

Well, by definition, opinions *can* be dead wrong...

 

 

I suppose my main point is, people who say "OPINION!" to avoid discussion, suck. And I see it alllll the time.

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Ray is right, actually. That kinda goes against the whole point of a message board, doesn't it?

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This isn't hard to comprehend to me, just as someone said before.

 

Straight up calling someone a moron, ass, or just saying "fuck you" or "your opinion is stupid" just because you do not agree with their opinion should = against the rules.

 

Responding to someone who you do not agree with and actually starting a conversation and challenging their opinion should = perfectly fine.

 

You can tell when someone wants to actually discuss something with another poster, and then when they are just trolling to be an ass.

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I also agree with Ray about the "OPINION~!" argument, because a lot of people use it. It's fine to have an opinion, but opinions can be wrong and/or can be viewed as wrong by another person, and thus, they have the right to criticize said "OPINION~!". That's the basic point of a message board. I think some people have a problem with accepting the fact that they can be wrong.

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I also agree with Ray about the "OPINION~!" argument, because a lot of people use it. It's fine to have an opinion, but opinions can be wrong and/or can be viewed as wrong by another person, and thus, they have the right to criticize said "OPINION~!". That's the basic point of a message board. I think some people have a problem with accepting the fact that they can be wrong.

That's all fine.

 

The people who want to discuss the opinion though, they should be able to do so without flaming them and calling the person stupid.

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I also agree with Ray about the "OPINION~!" argument, because a lot of people use it.  It's fine to have an opinion, but opinions can be wrong and/or can be viewed as wrong by another person, and thus, they have the right to criticize said "OPINION~!".  That's the basic point of a message board.  I think some people have a problem with accepting the fact that they can be wrong.

That's all fine.

 

The people who want to discuss the opinion though, they should be able to do so without flaming them and calling the person stupid.

I think your opinion on this is stupid...

 

 

 

 

 

:P

 

It's just bizarre that some people will go to extreme lengths to be contrary and argue just to argue. There is never anything we can do here, it's just the way people will be.

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This is pinned, so it's not like I'm bumping a dead topic.

 

http://forums.thesmartmarks.com/index.php?...opic=51847&st=0

 

^This thread is exactly what is wrong with the folder. I posted a rating of **1/2 for the WMXX three way, gave reasons, and defended my reasons for several pages, all the while being flamebaited (mainly by snuffbox, but also by hail BPS and MikeSC), and the several times I asked them to back up their opinions they make shitty "puro sucks" jokes when they brought puro up in the first place.

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Guest Man Of 1,004 Modes
This is pinned, so it's not like I'm bumping a dead topic.

 

http://forums.thesmartmarks.com/index.php?...opic=51847&st=0

 

^This thread is exactly what is wrong with the folder. I posted a rating of **1/2 for the WMXX three way, gave reasons, and defended my reasons for several pages, all the while being flamebaited (mainly by snuffbox, but also by hail BPS and MikeSC), and the several times I asked them to back up their opinions they make shitty "puro sucks" jokes when they brought puro up in the first place.

Why must every argument between you/others have to include someone making puro jokes...ugh.

 

::glad to see my name wasn't mentioned:: Damn though, **1/2....I gave that to Xtian/Jericho...I guess my rating systems based differently.

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