You're crazy. Jagged Little Pill is easily one of the best albums of the 1990s. There are only a few songs on there in the I-hate-men vein, while there's also a song about parents pushing their kids too hard ("Perfect"), a great song about the hypnotizing power of religion ("Forgiven"), and plenty of other good stuff. I'll admit to being a fan of acerbic writing (which is why I'm a John Lennon fan), and Alanis certainly does her share, but to say Jagged Little Pill is just a treatise on the evils of men is both shallow and wrong.
What were two of the biggest singles off of JLP? "All I Really Want" and "You Oughta Know"... yeah, those songs
And before you or anyone else goes into a "You have to look beyond the singles" type spiel, a single's premier job is to draw you into purchasing the CD. If I hate the single, why should I buy the CD? I'm not going to spend my money hunting for a possible "hidden gem" when I didn't like the main song they chose to represent the album (for whatever reason)
Even if she wasn't a shitty lyricist (See the classic Alanis lyric generator page), her over-the-top whiny whiny WHINY voice turns me off faster than a hoss lovefest