I don't put stock in bench numbers, but that's also because I don't bench with a bar (I use dumbbells - they're better for my creaky left shoulder and I also find them more comfortable) but I also haven't maxed out since I played football in HS, which even as a novice I thought it was pointless. I'm about 6'2" and about 175 pounds, and according to this quick little BMI calculator (which is far from accurate I'm sure, since all it takes into account is height and weight) I'm at 22.5. What I would really like to find out is my body fat %, which I'm sure is very, very low.
Just because some meathead can bench press 280+ pounds twice, high five his buds, and then walk around the gym for 5 minutes looking at himself in the mirror doesn't impress me. I see benching as just another exercise for your regimine - you shouldn't stress any one over any other, because in the end it doesn't matter all that much. It's just something jocks do to impress each other. What I strive for is overall strength, stability, and endurance.