Regarding the dress code, I posted this at another board:
I heard an Iverson soundbite on the issue a couple days ago, saying "I'm 30 and so I shouldn't be told what to do" or something to that effect
My first thought was "Okay, you're 30, so act like it (which the commentator said after the bite, ironically) and, really, you should be ditching the rebellious thug image by this point in your life anyways."
I mean, fuck, I dumped the "rebellious metalhead" image by the age of 23