Im going to need some advice..

[JangoFett4Hire 0]

I've been with quite a few women and such, but I'm still shy when I first meet someone. And I'm 30!

[Guest Princess Leena]

I can't do crowds, either. I try to fake feeling comfortable, but it never works. It's not a lack of confidence thing, I don't know what it is.

 

I'm not shy in 1-on-1 situations, but I will back off eventually due to my complete lack of trust with anyone.

[MrRant 0]

I think that's more of the "Jesus I hope I don't say something stupid" than shyness.

[EricMM 0]

I'm very very easygoing, and I do get along with people when I'm doing ANYTHING besides focusing on talking to a big group of people.

 

I'm an introvert and bars and such exhaust me. But give me a one on one and it's always good times. Even a one on one in a crowded room. I think I just can't stand focusing on so many people at once.

 

I hyperfocus. Google it.

[Guest Felonies!]

I'm kind of in the same vein: I enjoy one-on-one but crowds overwhelm me. I can't see myself trying to pick up a girl at a bar in the future, though.

[JangoFett4Hire 0]

Did anyone email this Heaven chick?

[EricMM 0]

I thought I saw Marvin eating at the student Union today.

 

It was a quite heavyset bald guy like no hair at all. Very pale.

 

But then I saw him talking to a lady.

 

And I knew it wasn't him...

[JangoFett4Hire 0]

I thought I saw Marvin eating at the student Union today.

 

It was a quite heavyset bald guy like no hair at all. Very pale.

 

But then I saw him talking to a lady.

 

And I knew it wasn't him...

 

oh no, you di'nt!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[EricMM 0]

He himself called himself bashful.

 

This guy was bashful at first but got smiles and laughter quickly and a furtive look back when she was leaving!!!

 

It can be done, m'man.

[JangoFett4Hire 0]

Don't get his hopes up by having him think that all a dude needs is a little mojo to talk to a chick and receive a positive feedback. That's just mean.

[Black Lushus 0]

I'm not going to read this whole thing...does Marvin have money? Have you guys seen some of the ugly bastards out there that have money and get hot chicks?

[Hawk 34 0]

I'm not going to read this whole thing...does Marvin have money? Have you guys seen some of the ugly bastards out there that have money and get hot chicks?

 

He only makes like $20 K. So life fucked him in every way possible. He is just holding hope that Powder 2 goes into production.

[MarvinisaLunatic 0]

I'm not going to read this whole thing...does Marvin have money? Have you guys seen some of the ugly bastards out there that have money and get hot chicks?

 

He only makes like $20 K. So life fucked him in every way possible. He is just holding hope that Powder 2 goes into production.

 

Obviously not in every way possible.

[Guest wildpegasus]

I read through a good portion of the book and it was pretty interesting. Some of the studies they cited were very intriguing.

Some of the LoveShy stuff applied to me but some of it didn't. I did however fit all the requirements to be classified as loveshy.

Marvin, I didn't quite read it all. Do they have any help suggestions in the book? I read the first part pretty intensely but skimmed through a lot of the rest.

[MarvinisaLunatic 0]

The one I got a kick out of was nude jacuzzi therapy..

 

I dont see that happening..

[Cherry Blossom Viscount 0]

How the hell did this thread become so long?

[MarvinisaLunatic 0]

It took this long for people to just give up on worrying about whatever I had to say in it. Which is coincidently the same amount of time it took for me to give up completely myself.

[Cherry Blossom Viscount 0]

Here's what you need to do. Google images of rap stars, you'll see a number of ugly black men. Now, I know what you're thinking, "Hey, they're rich!" Yes, they are, but there are a number of men just like them who are not rich, but are getting girls I can only seemingly dream of. Let me tell you something, it is not 1959 anymore. Looks do not matter as much as they once did. Just act like an overbearing ass and you will get a surprising large amount of women you won't be ashamed to bring to your friends house.

[Guest wildpegasus]

The one I got a kick out of was nude jacuzzi therapy..

 

I dont see that happening..

 

Looks like I'm going to have to read some more!!!!

[MarvinisaLunatic 0]

..

[MrRant 0]

It took this long for people to just give up on worrying about whatever I had to say in it. Which is coincidently the same amount of time it took for me to give up completely myself.

 

 

 

 

Seriously.

 

 

Get on OKCupid or something and strike up a conversation with a cute in the face but may be a bit larger woman and go on a date. Chances are things will work out well and if not, you get more practice as you will probably get more than one date (because her door isn't be beaten in) and those bigger girls love to fuck.

[Black Lushus 0]

Lowered Expectaaaaaatioooooooons

[EricMM 0]

Haha too fuckin right.

 

But nah, man, don't go that route.

 

Don't settle, Marvin! Losers settle!

[naiwf 0]

Haha too fuckin right.

 

But nah, man, don't go that route.

 

Don't settle, Marvin! Losers settle!

 

I disagree, losers don't get anywhere because they still think they'll get the best despite every fiber of their being sending out negative, "I'm a loser" vibes. A slump buster is totally acceptable and almost necessary for the guys who have been seeking advice in this thread. Barring religious reasons no man should be a virgin in his mid to late 20's. No one on this site is only going to get models, so why not just get it over with and then work towards women higher on the totem pole? Although it's not something I'd do, here's my advice, "Get Happy, Fuck a Fatty!"

[EricMM 0]

If you are ashamed of your slump buster, then what does that make you?

 

If you can't find ANY redeeming qualities in a girl, what right do you have fucking her?

 

I'm not saying marvin should be expecting a flawless girl, with an hourglass figure, long legs, busty, wearing hot clothes and everything else he might be dreaming about...

 

But just fucking a girl because you can? And you don't even like her? That's bullshit.

[Guest Princess Leena]

I agree with Eric. The lowered expectations thing is a bunch of bull.

 

Obviously, Marv shouldn't be bothering with model types, but it doesn't seem like he's that focused on looks anyway.

 

Talk to lots of people. Eventually, you'll click with some people. Some may be fat. Some may be relatively attractive. You never know.

[naiwf 0]

More confident, and out of a slump.

 

As long as she's OK with having sex and you're not paying for it or forcing it on her, I don't see what the problem is.

 

Sex is sex. Relationships are relationships. The two don't have to overlap. In Marvin's case, he'd probably be better off learning how to separate the two, or at the very least get an idea of what it is to deal with either. The guys in this thread will never be able to have healthy relationships because they have no experience with women because they keep shooting after girls they have no chance with. Add in their having no experience with sex on top of that, and that just makes their situations even worse. What would they DO if they actually got a "hot chick"?

 

I'm sure you'll be stunned to learn that women fuck guys they don't necessarily like either. It's more commonly called "casual sex".

[Black Lushus 0]

haha I can see the next topic

 

"Okay I Got This Hot Chick...Now How Do I Fuck Her?"

[Hawk 34 0]

I disagree with lowered expecations as well. It's a bogus excuse for those who lack confidence.

 

I'm far from the greatest looking guy to grace this earth but you won't see me going after the lower end of the totem pole, why? Because Im secure in myself that I can (and sometimes do) pull in an above average girl.

 

If I can't respect myself for being with that girl, it's worthless. If you want to bang a bar slut, enjoy it but it means nothing. You accomplished zilch.

 

I hate to say this and Leena and the other girls will attest that they do this with guys as well...

 

Every girl has a value. What you "score" indicates what you represent.

 

You get with a 2, that means you are a 2 even if you make $1 million a year and have the perfect body.

[Maztinho 0]

Lowered Expectaaaaaatioooooooons

 

*spit-take*