Based on this, Rant, I seriously doubt we'd ever come to your house, so sleep easy. Starting in gay and/or very liberal neighborhoods and asking for other places we could go from there is what I'm suggesting, and I think that's the best route possible.
Dude. I live in Washington State. Less than 10 minutes from Seattle. This is a liberal safe haven almost and I have plenty of co-workers and friends who are bi, lesbian or gay. I support them in their quest to get the benefits they should get.
I don't support them knocking on my door and pestering me about it. That just pisses me off.