NoCalMike 0 Report post Posted June 29, 2004 She was teaching him something alright...... TAMPA, Florida (AP) -- A 23-year-old middle-school teacher was charged with having sex with a 14-year-old student in a classroom, at her apartment and, once, in a vehicle while the teen's 15-year-old cousin drove. Detectives said that the cousins provided matching statements incriminating Debra Beasley Lafave and that the 14-year-old described Lafave's apartment and her tattoos and birthmarks. Lafave, who teaches reading in the Tampa suburb of Temple Terrace, was arrested there last week on lewd and lascivious battery charges, accused of having sex with the teen earlier this month at her apartment and in a portable classroom at Greco Middle School. She was out on bond on those charges when she turned herself in Monday in Marion County, about 80 miles north of Tampa, where the cousin lives. There, she is charged with lewd and lascivious battery and exhibition. She was released Monday on $25,000 bail. Her lawyer, John Fitzgibbons, said he was not ready to respond to the allegations. "There is a presumption of innocence in this country," he said. The teen told investigators that he and Lafave got to know each other during a class trip last month, and their sexual relationship began June 3. The boy told detectives that Lafave told him that her months-old marriage was in trouble and that she was attracted to him because having sex with him was not allowed. Lafave, who has worked with the Hillsborough County school system for two years, has been placed on administrative duty and could be suspended without pay at the next school board meeting, officials said. In Marion County, authorities say Lafave had sex with the student in the back of her sport utility vehicle while the cousin drove them around the Ocala area. **for a picture of her, follow the link at the top of the page** Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Slayer 0 Report post Posted June 30, 2004 I'd hit it Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest JMA Report post Posted June 30, 2004 Very nice picture. This reminds me of the whole Mary Kay Letourneau situation; except this teacher is much, much younger. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jingus 0 Report post Posted June 30, 2004 This woman should be given a medal for enriching some incredibly lucky kid's life, not get thrown in jail. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest JMA Report post Posted June 30, 2004 This woman should be given a medal for enriching some incredibly lucky kid's life, not get thrown in jail. I second this. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
geniusMoment 0 Report post Posted June 30, 2004 Damn, if at 14 I had the chance to have relations with a girl like that I would have considered myself the luckiest boy on the face of the earth. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NoCalMike 0 Report post Posted June 30, 2004 yeah on Jim Rome's show today, he said the only downside would be having a soar hand for all the high fives he was receiving from the other students...LOL. She must have worked through college FAST to get her degree and credentials so young. Then again, it is middle-school.... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Art Sandusky 0 Report post Posted June 30, 2004 But were it a male teacher, oooooooh the shitstorm... I love double standards that benefit dudes. Wish that had happened to me. Not many people get to have their lives play out like a porno. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NoCalMike 0 Report post Posted June 30, 2004 another hilarious point is that she said she was attracted to him because she was not "allowed to have sex with him" well she was married, so technically wasn't she not allowed to have sex with anybody(besides her husband). Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NoCalMike 0 Report post Posted June 30, 2004 But were it a male teacher, oooooooh the shitstorm... I love double standards that benefit dudes. Wish that had happened to me. Not many people get to have their lives play out like a porno. you are right in the fact that it is a double-standard, but I do think this is one of the rare occassion that the double-standard does indeed hold up. Usually when it is a male teacher, there is a lot of coersion and trickey involved, often playing upon emotions and weaknesses in the female, however when it is a female teacher, she can basically just ask for a volunteer to do it, and the entire male class would stand up and raise their hand. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Smell the ratings!!! Report post Posted June 30, 2004 I'd way hit it. And fucking while somebody drives you around is one of the odder kinks in recent memory. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lomasmoney 0 Report post Posted June 30, 2004 She must have worked through college FAST to get her degree and credentials so young. Then again, it is middle-school.... nah, dude its entirely possible as I had a teacher for Spanish that was 22 when she started. She went to the same high school as i did and she finished in time with summer classes all four years which equals to almost a full semester ahead. She was totally a babe too, and all of the upperclassmen totally tried hitting on her.............and we heard she liked it in the pooper Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
2GOLD 0 Report post Posted June 30, 2004 Did the kid report her? Cause if so...well then he was obvious traumatized to do something so stupid. Christ, I'm 23 and I can't even get woman that hot to even consider me. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest MikeSC Report post Posted June 30, 2004 But were it a male teacher, oooooooh the shitstorm... I love double standards that benefit dudes. Wish that had happened to me. Not many people get to have their lives play out like a porno. you are right in the fact that it is a double-standard, but I do think this is one of the rare occassion that the double-standard does indeed hold up. Usually when it is a male teacher, there is a lot of coersion and trickey involved, often playing upon emotions and weaknesses in the female, however when it is a female teacher, she can basically just ask for a volunteer to do it, and the entire male class would stand up and raise their hand. And I'm sure there are cases where the male teachers have girls who'd spread it for them at the drop of a hat. -=Mike Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest CronoT Report post Posted June 30, 2004 [sarcasm]You see? This is why they should only have old, dried-up, BUTT fugly teachers in middle school.[/sarcasm] Okay, back to reality. Seriously, they really shouldn't have a teacher that young doing either middle school or high school. My Senior year English teacher told my class about how she graduated from college at 21, and her first teaching job was Senior English. She got hit on so much. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dr. Tyler; Captain America 0 Report post Posted June 30, 2004 Dr. Drew would disapprove of this. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NoCalMike 0 Report post Posted June 30, 2004 But were it a male teacher, oooooooh the shitstorm... I love double standards that benefit dudes. Wish that had happened to me. Not many people get to have their lives play out like a porno. you are right in the fact that it is a double-standard, but I do think this is one of the rare occassion that the double-standard does indeed hold up. Usually when it is a male teacher, there is a lot of coersion and trickey involved, often playing upon emotions and weaknesses in the female, however when it is a female teacher, she can basically just ask for a volunteer to do it, and the entire male class would stand up and raise their hand. And I'm sure there are cases where the male teachers have girls who'd spread it for them at the drop of a hat. -=Mike yeah I was speaking in general terms though. Notice how a lot of the times, when it is the female adult, she usually tends to be on the hotter side, which is kind of weird, yet with the Male teacher it is usually the nerdy, low self-esteem, easy prey type of girl. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jobber of the Week 0 Report post Posted June 30, 2004 The picture in that CNN article is very generous, so: http://story.news.yahoo.com/news?tmpl=stor...0/tp10106291612 Oh my. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ted the Poster 0 Report post Posted June 30, 2004 I usually only browse the CE folder, but this caught my attention. If she is attracted to guys that she shouldn't have sex with, then why not just have an affair with a married man? Then it'd be twice as "bad" since she's already married. Oh, and this: Lafave, who teaches reading in the Tampa suburb of Temple Terrace Pardon me if I'm being naive, but since when do middle school teachers teach reading? *decides against making a tasteless "special kids" joke* Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kkktookmybabyaway 0 Report post Posted June 30, 2004 My middle school had a required reading class, and I was in a good school district, besides having me stink up the joint. The class was much more advanced than "See Spot Run." I think I failed that class and had to take summer school classes, but that was because I was a lazy shit. And in my primary learning career, there was only one teacher I every wanted to have sex with, and she was a sub... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Agent of Oblivion Report post Posted June 30, 2004 Atta boy. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dr. Tom 0 Report post Posted June 30, 2004 The "double standard" mentioned is the same one that applies in any case of rape or sexual assault. It comes from the belief that men are always looking for sex, and thus would enjoy being sexually assaulted by a woman. While there's probably a good deal of accuracy there, I don't think it's universally true, but it's pretty much universally accepted. As for hot teachers, my French teacher in freshman year of high school was off the hook. I was tempted to ask her what "deep dickings" translated to in French... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kkktookmybabyaway 0 Report post Posted June 30, 2004 My one French teacher was Ms. Koeing (pronounced "Co-Neg"). Her nickname was Koenig the Barbarian. She would have been a cool teacher to have if she taught a subject I gave two shits about... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ted the Poster 0 Report post Posted June 30, 2004 Oh, okay then. I guess the article just made it appear she teaches eighth graders how to read. Still, a middle school reading class seems a bit odd. I guess it must depend on the school district. Now, back on topic. Anybody know the longest sentence handed out to a female teacher for sex with a student? I can't imagine it being extremely bad since women are hardly ever charged with any type of rape(that I've heard about). Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Nelly's Bandaid Report post Posted June 30, 2004 This is ridiculous, outrageous and I'm shocked at just how advocating some of your responses are. HE TOLD ON HER. I mean unless she started getting clingy and psycho, what the hell is this kid doing!? He has a good thing going with a hot teacher(Jobber your photo was a little too nick nolte to be taken as a standard) and he "comes clean" and gets her fired? I say we put the kid in jail, and give this lady a 5 year salary-lump and tell her she'd be welcome to teach again then, at which time this story will be old news and boys will have learned not to tell on the teacher sucking your junk. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kkktookmybabyaway 0 Report post Posted June 30, 2004 Oh, okay then. I guess the article just made it appear she teaches eighth graders how to read. For some schools I wouldn't be surprised if that were the case. From what I can remember about my Reading class we read hippie books and learned words 'n stuff. My English class focused more on just speling and grammer... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
swan 0 Report post Posted June 30, 2004 You can view her wedding and engagement pictures here: http://www.mjmorningshow.com/morning_home.html Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest BobBacklundRules Report post Posted July 1, 2004 I recommend EVERYONE read the charges against her, then watch that wedding video. That's why I'll never marry a hot chick... not that I couldn't... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest BobBacklundRules Report post Posted July 1, 2004 http://www.mjmorningshow.com/morning_DebraMMMagazine.html how does that Van Halen song go? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
2GOLD 0 Report post Posted July 1, 2004 Ok, if he reported her then he didn't want it. Cause if you are 14 and kick that out of your bed, you need to be beaten severely for several days with a dead marlin. Obviously he must have been traumatized...or incredibly stupid. Turning down that for someone your own age at 14, you no longer are allowed to be male. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
