Im going to need some advice..

[C Dubya 04 0]

Yeah, you have to at one point be producing in order to be in a slump.

[MarvinisaLunatic 0]

Update: She left me a message saying that she had some of her plans for tomorrow afternoon canceled and she was wondering if we could make a whole day out of it tomorrow instead of just dinner. Im getting ready to call her now, but thats a decent sign isn't it?

[Hawk 34 0]

No, it's a horrible sign. The girl wants to spend MORE time with you. Why are you even asking? Of course it's a great thing.

[kkktookmybabyaway 0]

Here we go again.

[MarvinisaLunatic 0]

I just called her and she was eating dinner but we managed to agree on eating lunch at the same place at like 12:30 or so and then going from there..I suggested going to the movies and she suggested, to my amazement, that we could go back to her place and watch the Os game at 1:30 (I didnt even know the Os game had been rescheduled for tomorrow, and we're both Orioles fans)...who knows.

 

Lunch is a better thing anyway, as it will be cheaper and less crowded.

[randomguy 0]

Will hell freeze over? Tune in tomorrow!

[Guest NYankees]

Marvin is going to get stood up at the restaurant while some girl and her friends are hiding and laugh.

[Black Lushus 0]

*keeps fingers crossed*

[Hawk 34 0]

Marvin is going to get stood up at the restaurant while some girl and her friends are hiding and laugh.

 

Considering they spent so much time on the phone together, I'd doubt this. It'd be more clear if we knew the story of how they met because this was so sudden after the Heaven debacle.

 

I'm cheering for Marv now.

[KGB 0]

Yeah, how'd you get to meet her?

[naiwf 0]

Marvin is going to get stood up at the restaurant while some girl and her friends are hiding and laugh.

 

That's my guess too.

[KGB 0]

NYankees would know.

[Art Sandusky 0]

Didn't I beg someone to close this thread? I want Marvin to do well here, and all these suckas here are just gonna psych him out.

[MarvinisaLunatic 0]

How I managed to find her is irrelevant and not something I want to go around bragging about on here.

[Black Lushus 0]

Lowered Expectations...we already covered this once...

 

whatever Marvin, if you met her through a dating service or something, so what? If that's what ya gotta do, who cares? If it works, it works...don't be ashamed.

 

or maybe on the net?

 

or through a friend?

[2GOLD 0]

Lowered Expectations...we already covered this once...

 

whatever Marvin, if you met her through a dating service or something, so what? If that's what ya gotta do, who cares? If it works, it works...don't be ashamed.

 

or maybe on the net?

 

or through a friend?

 

Yeah Marv man, who cares?

I don't think I would care if you dug a hole and she popped her head out.

 

Hell I met my fiancee through the internet, shit don't matter anymore.

[MarvinisaLunatic 0]

Lots to say but I'll try and keep brief.

 

She is definitely short..if she's even 5 feet Id be amazed. Overall she's really nice looking despite one little glaring problem..Her teeth are absolutely horrendous. I dont have the worlds best teeth either but..damn..other than her teeth, she had nice light brown hair and she was definitely about average weight wise.

 

Lunch went pretty well and although she only ate half her salad the waitress came over and brought a take home container so she could take the rest home. I paid the entire bill, and it was only like $25 which wasnt bad. I followed her to her apartment and we got there in time to watch the Os game (they won 7-4!) and we pretty much talked there for almost another 3 hours.

 

She did throw a couple of questions at me..First was had I ever been in a long term relationship which I answered no, and she said that she had only been in one for 3 months and it ended up bad. I brought up doing the internet dating sites and she said the last guy she was trying to meet talked to her over the phone and said "when I knock on your door, will you be wearing a towel" or something like that and she hung up on him. Another guy she met was aparently some computer geek or something and would always be glued to some computer game instead of doing anything with her. I kept thinking that if she got her teeth fixed, she

would definitely be doing a lot better than those guys (and me unfortunately).

 

The other question that threw me for a loop was what I was looking for in a relationship. I dont even remember what I said as an answer.

 

Anyway, after the Os game was over, she originally leff it up to me as to whether wed do anything more, and then her phone rang and it was her parents who wanted to see if she wanted to come over for dinner. I told her go and do that, and Id call her Friday since she said she'll know friday what shes doing over the weekend and we might be able to do some things since Im off.

 

Oh, and I gave her a nice but rather akward hug at the end but I couldnt bring myself to go for a kiss. The hug was akward enough since theres probably about 15 inches worth of height difference at least.

 

Overall, it went better than I thought it would..

[Guest NYankees]

So how did you meet her????

[MarvinisaLunatic 0]

I just had a realization that if I go to hug her again/kiss her, Im going to probably going to have to pick her up like in the movies..aww..

 

And I already said Im not talking about that issue (how did I meet her)?

[Sideburnious 0]

Ignore NYankees, Marvin.

 

Glad its going well for you. Just take your time with the relationship and show her you're a nice guy.

[Guest NYankees]

Marvin did you meet her on Craigslist?

[Guest StylesMark]

Forget the size difference and the teeth. Just keep seeing her.

[Black Lushus 0]

good job Marvin! Good luck friday!

[MarvinisaLunatic 0]

As long as shes cool with it (which Id say is about 90% possible), I will. Ive just got to come up with some more interesting things to do. The height difference will work itself out, and as bad as her teeth are, its not really that big of a deal (just a not very pleasant surprise since she looks nice) and Im assuming its due to some meds shes on since I read that one of the meds she said she was taking has bad effects on teeth.

[kkktookmybabyaway 0]

What's wrong with the teeth?

[MarvinisaLunatic 0]

They were crooked and kinda dark colored/stained. Sorta reminded me of witches teeth in like cartoons or bad movies or whatever. From what I could tell she had all of them though so it wasn't that bad.

[Black Lushus 0]

dammit, it's always something!

[tominator89 0]

Don't complain about the height difference. A lot of women prefer much taller men.

[Sideburnious 0]

Dude, you have no hair on your body and she puts up with it. Just be happy and put up with her crappy teeth. Inner beauty, it could be alot worse etc blah blah blah.

 

Just aim for friday, be talkative and be yourself.

[Your Paragon of Virtue 0]

Sideburnious don't be a dumbass and lecture him on something he really doesn't need lecturing about.

 

Hope it works out for you Marvin. This is like a longass movie. Hopefully this climax ends with an actual climax...that doesn't involve HD.