I called that one. Still, I'm finding if you don't even give people a chance then you end passing over on the good ones. You really aren't a psycho/bitch/bad person or whatever, you've just been dealt a bad hand and because of it you're extremely defensive...to the point where you become offensive. Just take a deep breath and roll with the punches. Remember, in the end you have the ability to just walk away from whomever it is bothering you and not allow them to hurt you.